Am I Enough? The Question that no longer serves me

Make yourself a door through which to be hospitable, even to the stranger in you. Even to the one who still questions if you’ll ever feel okay, the one who still finds it hard to let okayness in when it’s here, the one who still needs your very own hand to hold it.  Lisa Olivera

For years, I’ve asked myself the same haunting question: Is this enough? Am I enough? What is enough?

It followed me through every challenge, every heartbreak, every moment that forced change upon me. Losing a job—Am I enough? Divorce—Am I enough? Rejection, new beginnings, stepping into the unknown—Am I enough?

Every time I searched for the answer outside of myself, I ended up right back where I started. Exhausted. Worn down, Questioning my worth. Trying to prove something that was never in question to begin with.

Enoughness isn’t found in achievement. It’s not measured by approval or success. It doesn’t live in external validation. It is, and always has been, within me. I was born enough.

So, today, I am making a shift. No more seeking, no more proving. Instead, I ask:

Did I show up? Did I love? Did I laugh?

Because enoughness isn't a checklist—it’s presence, authenticity, compassion. It’s living fully, without the weight of proving worthiness.

When I forget this truth, I deny myself. I betray myself. I contort into something I am not. That ends today.

I have nothing to prove. Nothing to lose. Nothing to earn.

I am here. I am whole. I am enough.

And so are you.

Peace and Blessings

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