The Art of Growth

We tend to think of intuition as a tool for answering practical questions: Should I take this job? Is this the right decision? We frame it as if it serves the rational world. But intuition is not a rational skill. When you treat it as one, you’re already misunderstanding it. Intuition is, in truth, a mystical capacity—one that calls for a different kind of listening, a different kind of knowing. Carolynn Myss 

Carolyn Myss once said, "The only way to hold onto something is to give it a false value." This quote hit me differently when I realized how much I had been clinging to comfort—attaching meaning to people, places, and things in ways that kept me from moving forward. 

I had been hesitant to do the work, stuck in doubt and fear, ignoring my intuition. But life has a way of pushing us forward, whether we're ready or not. Now, I find myself in a place where I must change: I must find another source of income. I must elevate the Nina program. I must grow.

We hold onto things—relationships, routines, habits—not because they truly define us, but because they feel safe. In my own life, I see now how staying comfortable was its own form of resistance. I convinced myself that stability meant success, that familiarity meant security. But in reality, comfort kept me in place. And when life called for me to level up, I wasn’t prepared.

I used to think that letting go meant loss, but now I understand it as transformation. Life wants us to move. It nudges us, sometimes forcefully, toward change because growth isn’t meant to be stagnant. Every moment, every shift, every challenge holds potential. Instead of fearing what’s leaving, I’m learning to embrace what’s arriving.

Why Do We Fear Change?

Because change demands courage. It asks us to trust ourselves before we have proof that things will work out. I know this deeply because I’ve been hesitant to act—hesitant to step into the unknown, hesitant to give myself permission to pursue something greater. Doubt and fear had me stuck, whispering that it’s safer to hold onto what I know. But safety isn’t the same as fulfillment.

Listening to Intuition & Divine Guidance

For too long, I ignored my intuition. I felt its pull, but I silenced it with rationalizations, excuses, distractions. I convinced myself that staying put made sense, even when something inside me kept nudging me toward more. But when I finally started listening, I realized that my intuition wasn’t leading me astray—it was guiding me toward the expansion I had been avoiding.

The Courage to Act

Now, I have no choice but to act. The universe has set me on a path where staying the same isn’t an option. I must step forward, elevate my work, take ownership of my growth. And though the unknown still feels intimidating, I know that transformation isn’t about waiting for the fear to disappear—it’s about moving forward despite it.

I am stepping into this season of transition with an open heart, trusting that discomfort is just the doorway to something greater.

Are you ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start embracing your own wisdom? Change is inevitable, but fear doesn’t have to hold you back. If you're navigating uncertainty and want support in strengthening your self-trust, I’d love to guide you through the process.

Through coaching, you’ll gain the confidence to act despite doubt, find balance between intuition and ego, and step into the life you truly want.

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