Akosua Dardaine Edwards

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Akosua Dardaine Edwards - author, writer, coach, gender specialist, speaker

 

What is Your Reason for Busyness?

So, before we start applauding sotmeone’s busyness, can we take a moment to understand that we are also possibly applauding and reinforcing a trauma response and a systematically flawed system? Maria Sosa


In my culture, busyness is rewarded. Not taking holidays and vacations are rewarded, not taking time off when one is unwell is rewarded.

I bought it into this culture- wholesale!

kept busy

kept working even when unwell

and kept being rewarded for it.


 Questioning this approach and realising that it led me to not only health issues but mental depletion, has led me to the concept that too much busyness is a response to trauma, a way to escape one self and avoid something or someone. To not get in touch with self. To run from self.


Some of us are truly being rewarded for always being busy, always working hard, always on the go. It shows a sign of success. When we are called successful and rewarded for our actions we will continue on that path.

We applaud them

We salute them

We even look up to them.


The thing to remember is that trauma and pain can be disguised in overwork, busyness,perfectionism and over achievement. 

Don't assume that people who seem to have it all together, really do.



Balance is important. Anything we do with no focus and too extreme can be detrimental to us.

Honour the balance in how you live

Peace



Have you read any of Akosua's work?

What Did I Learn Today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love


Nyabo (Madam) - Why Are You Here?

Daily Lessons on the Journey - A Journal


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Your story is inspiring, your delivery is real
— Barbara Ince, President - Maloney Women's Group
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— Cherisse Rawlins - Teacher Moruga Secondary
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— Sharon Christopher, Dep CEO First Citizens Bank Limited
It was a pleasure hosting you. Your reading from Nyabo (Madam) Why Are You Here? - was both thought provoking and insightful, thank you.
— Consulate General of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago - New York
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— Marlene Charles, YWCA President
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— Michele Celestine, Executive Director Heroes Foundation
What an honour and priveledge it was for me and my wife to host you during your stay in Washington DC
— Anthony WJ Phillips-Spencer, Ambassador Extraordinary Embassy of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago
Unveiling was exactly what I needed, thank you.
— Participant at 2017's Unveiling- Looking into the Mirror of Self
Akosua, congratulations and thank you for that fabulous and thoughtful sharing from your book. I did NOTHING for the weekend but read your books. Madam, I found your story telling light and entertaining, true Trini style but DEEP.
— Sandra Ferguson, Agency for Rural Transformation, Grenada W.I
After hearing Ms. Akosua speak, I now know that I am everything and that I have everything to become who I want to be.
— Jenna Marie Bharat, Student- San Juan South Secondary School
Madam Akosua was awe inspiring. Excellent motivational skills. For me as a new retiree her words encourage me to “give back to the village”
— Anthea Doyle
Inspirational for both year groups. Forms 3 and 5. They were at the edge of their seats. prodding them to plan and even when things do not go as planned... to never give up when faced with life’s challenges
— San Juan South Secondary School
She is complete, sincere and true to herself. Akosua relates to you on what is common in all of us, our humanity.
— Odella Jowaheer