Akosua Dardaine Edwards

Let's Share Lessons on The Journey

Akosua Dardaine Edwards - author, writer, coach, gender specialist, speaker


Why Are You Not Normal?

Purpose provides a direction for life; you know what you want to express or achieve and look for ways of doing that. Purpose is different to goals. A purpose relates to the road to be travelled, whereas goals are the stops along the way. When the direction you are taking is significant and worthwhile to you, your life has meaning. Christiana Star

Living by the status quo for me is now more difficult based on the choices I have made over the past few years. In this case I am referring to having a 9-5 job and all the trappings associated with it

Based on my "situation" after going to financial institutions they ask me "how are you able to live?" And all I can think about is "The Universe provides" but of course, when I mention that there is either an uncomfortable laugh or an uncomfortable silence. This week I went to a financial institution to get information about purchasing a property and was met with the same questions

How do you live?

You really have nothing of substance

I go through this every time and, confessions on the journey, it creates quite a bit of dount on whether or not I have made the right choices thus far.

And when I think about my life I come back to the questions

Am I doing what I want to do?

Are all my needs met?

Do I have have food, clothing and shelter?

Am I having fun?

Are the intentions behind what I am doing clear and pure?

If all of the answers are yes, the doubt subside

Can I make better choices? Yes I can

Can I live a different life? Of course I can

Do I want to? Depends on how I want to feel because my feelings are the guides to achiving the life that I want


You have positively influenced the lives of many today. God will do the rest to take them where he chooses
— Jennifer Prince Professor University of the Southern Caribbean
The students who attended the function were so inspired by you they want all their friends to be exposed to your story
— Cherisse Rawlins - Teacher Moruga Secondary
I must thank you for your presentation, many people were blown away by it
— Sharon Christopher Dep CEO First Citizens Bank Limited
It was a pleasure hosting you. Your reading from Nyabo (Madam) Why Are You Here? was both thought provoking and insightful- thank you
— Consulate General of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago - New York
You are an inspiration to us all
— Marlene Charles YWCA President
I can’t stop telling people about your presentation. You changed my life forever!
— Michele Celestine, Executive Director Heroes Foundation
What an honour and priveledge it was for me and my wife to host you during your stay in Washington DC
— Anthony WJ Phillips-Spencer, Ambassador Extraordinary Embassy of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago