Akosua Dardaine Edwards

Let's Share Lessons on The Journey

Akosua Dardaine Edwards - author, writer, coach, gender specialist, speaker

 

[What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love] Allow others to be who they are

Allow others to be who they are, to do what they do and to have what they
have. Do not judge them and do not have emotional attachments and
expectations of them. They are what, who and how they are. If that is
different to who, what and how you are, so be it. Accept, honour, respect,
allow and support who YOU are. Accept, honour, respect, allow and support
who they are. The Law of Allowing

Oh we love to fix people, we love to tell them what they should and
shouldn't be doing, how best to live, how best to love. Sometimes we do it
all in the name of love and sometimes in the name of eo and control. Other
times we are just plain ole nosy and not living our own lives.

Whatever the reason, the fact is that loving people enough to allow them to
live without judgement is a big step. It involves courage, and lack of
expectations. For humans this is now unfortunately outside of our norm. We
love to give advice, tell people what to do and get upset when the people
ignore us.

If you love people for anything love them enough to allow them to live
their own life while the love you enough for you to love yours

We are all on our own path, some of the things we do and go through,
someone else may not understand or accept. The diversity of people and
their lives is what makes the world interesting

The best thing about it all is that we get to choose, we get to choose who
we have in our tribe.

Peace

-- Posted By Blogger to What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to
Unconditional Self Love on 8/31/2016 03:52:00 pm

Your story is inspiring, your delivery is real
— Barbara Ince, President - Maloney Women's Group
The students who attended the function were so inspired by you they want all their friends to be exposed to your story.
— Cherisse Rawlins - Teacher Moruga Secondary
I must thank you for your presentation, many people were blown away by it.
— Sharon Christopher, Dep CEO First Citizens Bank Limited
It was a pleasure hosting you. Your reading from Nyabo (Madam) Why Are You Here? - was both thought provoking and insightful, thank you.
— Consulate General of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago - New York
You are an inspiration to us all
— Marlene Charles, YWCA President
I can’t stop telling people about your presentation. You changed my life forever!
— Michele Celestine, Executive Director Heroes Foundation
What an honour and priveledge it was for me and my wife to host you during your stay in Washington DC
— Anthony WJ Phillips-Spencer, Ambassador Extraordinary Embassy of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago
Unveiling was exactly what I needed, thank you.
— Participant at 2017's Unveiling- Looking into the Mirror of Self
Akosua, congratulations and thank you for that fabulous and thoughtful sharing from your book. I did NOTHING for the weekend but read your books. Madam, I found your story telling light and entertaining, true Trini style but DEEP.
— Sandra Ferguson, Agency for Rural Transformation, Grenada W.I
After hearing Ms. Akosua speak, I now know that I am everything and that I have everything to become who I want to be.
— Jenna Marie Bharat, Student- San Juan South Secondary School
Madam Akosua was awe inspiring. Excellent motivational skills. For me as a new retiree her words encourage me to “give back to the village”
— Anthea Doyle
Inspirational for both year groups. Forms 3 and 5. They were at the edge of their seats. prodding them to plan and even when things do not go as planned... to never give up when faced with life’s challenges
— San Juan South Secondary School