The Grace of Losing: A Redefinition
Rather than think about what you have to do to change a situation, consider what the situation might be doing to change you. How it might be seasoning and transforming and growing you. You are not responsible for everything and everyone. Allow that as a possibility. Jessica Dore
There are some situations that don’t come into your life to stay. They show up like quiet teachers, nudging you to shift, stretch, evolve. They whisper of change, even when you’re desperately clinging to what’s familiar.
You say you want to grow—but are you ready to release?
You say you long for transformation—but have you made peace with the discomfort of the unknown?
Let’s be honest: loss is terrifying.
We grieve even the things we no longer want.
The familiar, no matter how confining, wraps itself around us like family.
It becomes our safety net, our story, our shield.
But maybe it’s time to redefine “lose.”
What If Loss Is Just a Beginning?
I don’t say I lost my house anymore.
I don’t say I lost my marriage, my mind, or my way.
I don't say I lost the relationship or lost out to someone else.
I say I opened.
I say I was invited into a new possibility.
A deeper question. A fuller truth.
Loss taught me to see from the inside out.
Not with fear, but with discernment.
Not as punishment, but as permission.
The Shift Begins Within
Transformation doesn’t arrive at your doorstep with a tidy bow.
It’s messy. It aches. It breaks you open.
But when you begin to ask different questions, the world shifts.
What am I learning?
What am I showing myself?
Who do I want to be?
And the most powerful question of all:
How can I see this differently?
That’s where the shift lives.
Not in the outcome.
In the choosing.
In the reframing.
In the willingness to turn loss into liberation.
Feeling It All
Let me be clear—this journey is not tidy.
It is painful. It is gritty. It feels shitty, often.
But every uncomfortable emotion is a teacher.
Grief, anger, fear—they each hold a gift.
And so I walk forward with grace.
Not because I have no wounds.
But because I’ve chosen to let my scars become symbols.
Of growth. Of resilience.
Of sacred redefinition.
Peace and Blessings
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