The A in Self Love

My philosophy is that not only are you responsible for your life, but doing the best at this moment puts you I the best place for the next moment.

Oprah Winfrey

The A in self-love

What happens after you have reached a point of unconditional self love? does life just run smoothly? is there continual bliss? are all your problems magically solved?

Well i would say no

Unconditional self-love is not the answer to all

It really isn’t

Unconditional self-love offers hope

The hope for confidence to deal with the challenges one will inevitably face on this journey called life

Do not be fooled into thinking finding unconditional self-love is the ultimate fixer

What this love does is, it holds you accountable, it makes you more responsible and it leads to making more hopeful and loving decisions both for you and others

It does not give you a pass to be a jerk to others in the name of “i love myself”

It does not give you the reason to blame anyone or anything on “for the love”

Unconditional self-love is the foundation

Without a solid foundation everything all falls down

Accountability looks like owning your stuff

It looks like showing up

It looks like keeping your word

It looks like forgiveness

It looks like empathy and compassion

It looks like boundaries

Accountability leads to making better choices and decisions

There is no self-love without accountability and without accountability hope is lost

Here’s the thing, we get to the point of unconditional self-love and beyond by holding ourselves accountable, by holding others accountable

The a in love is accountability

Peace

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