The 3 P's of Relationships
The three P’s—passion, power and pain—that are part of every relationship - Iyanla Vanzant
All relationships I have learnt takes a certain amount of vested interest. How we show up in our relationships will determine how we show out.
Relationships mirror back to us where we are, what we are thinking, consciously, subsoncsiously and un consciously.
Look at the relationships in your life and they tell you a story, or maybe the lack of relationships
Be the relationship
our relationships tell us a story
The challenge comes in when we have conflicts, differing opinions and want our own way When we act and make decisions on fear and people pleasing.
There are tools which we can use to resolve conflicts, what happens is a combination of us not knowing these tools, not wanting to use these tools for many varied reasons including ego and wanting to be right and wanting to not look "bad" and the clincher is admitting our mistakes
Who likes admitting making a mistake?
All of it is part of the process, taking all as lessons and being comfortable with the discomfort knowing that in the long run its for a better situation.
Feel it all, the feelings are only guides
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