Akosua Dardaine Edwards

Let's Share Lessons on The Journey

Akosua Dardaine Edwards - author, writer, coach, gender specialist, speaker

 

[What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love] Do not waste your failures

A come back is not a go back - Tim Storey

News flash! You cannot go back and fix things! You just can't! Life is
always in session. Many times situations come to you as feedback, as
communication as guidance as to what you might need to do, change or move.
I will admit, I am a recovering "fixer"Boy oh boy, I wanted to fix things,
as soon as something came up my mind would be racing how can I fix this?
Many times it would involve going back! But I have learnt that I cannot go
back! Forward, onward and upward. When you feel the need to fix ask
yourself is this fear based? Am I ignoring the signs? What exactly do I
want to fix? Any and every successful person knows that challenges and failures come as
part of the package and the decision is really how do I learn from this to
take me forward One of my best best lessons is that learning only takes place when my
behavior changes! If I am still doing the same ole shit honey I haven't
learnt a thing and class remains in session!

So, I have stopped my fix it mode, I look at the situation and ask what are
you here to teach me? How can I use this to take me forward then I let go,
trust, have faith and hope that I don't have to repeat the class! Surrender
sounds like ahhhhhhhhh....

Peace!

-- Posted By Blogger to What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to
Unconditional Self Love on 4/07/2015 11:21:00 am

Your story is inspiring, your delivery is real
— Barbara Ince, President - Maloney Women's Group
The students who attended the function were so inspired by you they want all their friends to be exposed to your story.
— Cherisse Rawlins - Teacher Moruga Secondary
I must thank you for your presentation, many people were blown away by it.
— Sharon Christopher, Dep CEO First Citizens Bank Limited
It was a pleasure hosting you. Your reading from Nyabo (Madam) Why Are You Here? - was both thought provoking and insightful, thank you.
— Consulate General of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago - New York
You are an inspiration to us all
— Marlene Charles, YWCA President
I can’t stop telling people about your presentation. You changed my life forever!
— Michele Celestine, Executive Director Heroes Foundation
What an honour and priveledge it was for me and my wife to host you during your stay in Washington DC
— Anthony WJ Phillips-Spencer, Ambassador Extraordinary Embassy of the Republic of Trinidad and Tobago
Unveiling was exactly what I needed, thank you.
— Participant at 2017's Unveiling- Looking into the Mirror of Self
Akosua, congratulations and thank you for that fabulous and thoughtful sharing from your book. I did NOTHING for the weekend but read your books. Madam, I found your story telling light and entertaining, true Trini style but DEEP.
— Sandra Ferguson, Agency for Rural Transformation, Grenada W.I
After hearing Ms. Akosua speak, I now know that I am everything and that I have everything to become who I want to be.
— Jenna Marie Bharat, Student- San Juan South Secondary School
Madam Akosua was awe inspiring. Excellent motivational skills. For me as a new retiree her words encourage me to “give back to the village”
— Anthea Doyle
Inspirational for both year groups. Forms 3 and 5. They were at the edge of their seats. prodding them to plan and even when things do not go as planned... to never give up when faced with life’s challenges
— San Juan South Secondary School
She is complete, sincere and true to herself. Akosua relates to you on what is common in all of us, our humanity.
— Odella Jowaheer