[What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love] Stand in your truth!

Everything you say and do shows the world who you are, let it be the truth!
Oprah Winfrey

Many of my poor choices have come from giving my power away to someone
else! In an effort to people please and to avoid confrontation - believing
that people would not like me or that I had less to offer than they did or
that the love they had to offer was more important than the love I had to
offer myself.

I remember when I was in a relationship based on lies and deceit and I was
on my knees literally begging the person to stay and I remember him
standing at the doorway saying " The problem you have is that you think you
are too smart and special, there is no one in the world who wants a smart
ass" he jumped in his car and rode out!

As I walked back inside, I thought to myself I am becoming someone that I
vowed never ever to become, I sat on the floor in the corridor and it
became clear to me through the fog of an ugly cry, he was wrong, I did not
think I was smart and special and therein lies the problem- Why was I
allowing myself to be treated this way? Even with that aha moment it took
me more than a year and a whole continent to realize that and recognize the
truth that I am all right, just as I am, enough, all by myself! The revelation brought me miracles!

What is the truth of your life? It is your duty to know, and know this, the
truth is what feels good, feels right, feels loving. Love doesn't hurt, it
feels really good. Its that which allows you to live each day with honor. I learnt to take responsibility, I was given a mirror, as I grow and demand
more of myself the reflection in the mirror must change, when you take
responsibility it frees you up to make better choices In everything
remember you are the love that you seek. You and God are really a majority.

Peace!

-- Posted By Blogger to What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to
Unconditional Self Love on 3/20/2015 02:25:00 pm