[What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to Unconditional Self Love] Boundaries emerge from within

"Boundaries emerge from deep within. They are connected to letting go of
guilt and shame, and to changing our beliefs about what we deserve. As our
thinking about this becomes clearer, so will our boundaries. Boundaries are
also connected to a Higher Timing than our own. We'll set a limit when
we're ready, and not a moment before. So will others. There's something
magical about reaching that point of becoming ready to set a limit. We know
we mean what we say; others take us seriously too. Things change, not
because we're controlling others, but because we've changed." Melody Beatie

I was telling a friend this week that there are many many times that I feel
unstoppable, like I can do anything, feel the fear and jump in! On those
days the Universe tests me in many ways like in December when I had to
climb up some rocks to get to a destination in El Salvador. There was no
other way! And I said hey, let's do this! I'm all in. There are other times
when I have to speak to a crowd and its the same I say wow, I am here I'm
awesome let's roll baby girl!

And then here I am, like a bowl of jello with relationships, any kind of
relationship, work, romantic, friendships. Building them and letting them
go! The lion turns into a pussycat! I must admit that I have gotten much
better with the tools and lessons learnt over the past couple of years. But
last night after my mini panic I realized that it's all good as the
interactions we have with the other person evoke the responses within us
that require healing, the healing takes place when we chose a new response.
The interactions indicate that I am in the process of healing! I know that
there are certain things about myself I need to know and acknowledge. As
soon as I realized that I gave thanks! I am in the right place

Peace!!

-- Posted By Blogger to What did I learn today? Lessons on the Journey to
Unconditional Self Love on 2/21/2015 04:19:00 pm