The Price of Perspective

"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." – Wayne Dyer

How I  see the world is shaped has been shaped by my experiences and mindset at any given moment. But what I have been learning lately is that sometimes  life calls for us to shift that perspective—to see beyond our current beliefs and expand into new ways of thinking. It’s never easy, and it often comes at a cost.

Growth doesn’t just challenge our own inner narratives—it challenges the expectations others have for us. When we evolve, some people will resist, insisting, “You’ve changed,” as if change is a betrayal rather than a natural part of life. Some will see our transformation as an act of superiority rather than self-discovery. And that can be hard.

But staying the same simply to keep others comfortable isn’t growth—it’s stagnation. And sometimes, the price of evolution is releasing relationships, expectations, and old versions of ourselves that no longer align with who we are becoming.

The greatest challenge isn’t just the external resistance—it’s the internal battle. We tell ourselves stories that may not be true, shaping our actions based on limiting beliefs rather than reality. We accept distorted truths because they feel safer than the unknown.

But choosing growth means questioning those narratives. Asking: Is this story serving me? Is it helping me heal, expand, and rise? If not, it’s time to rewrite the script.

Ultimately, our journey is ours alone. It’s not about how others perceive us or whether they approve—it’s about stepping fully into our own truth. Healing, learning, and evolving require focus on our own path rather than worrying about how others are walking theirs.

Every shift in perspective brings discomfort, but also clarity. The price of growth is high, but the reward—living in alignment with who you truly are—is worth it.

Peace and Blessings

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NOMINATED TO THE EMPOWERMENT IN ACTION AWARD

I’m incredibly honored to share that I’ve been nominated for the Caribbean POSH ICON Woman Award 2025 in the category of EMPOWERMENT IN ACTION  🇻🇮🇯🇲🇧🇧🇱🇨🇦🇮🇹🇹

Someone took the time to recognize my journey, and for that, I am truly grateful. This nomination reminds me that every step we take—big or small—deserves to be celebrated. 

Across the Caribbean and the diaspora, women are doing amazing, impactful work, and I’m proud to stand among this powerful community of trailblazers who continue to inspire, lead, and uplift. 

This year’s theme, “Embrace the Power, Live the Dream,” is the perfect reminder of what’s possible when we walk boldly in our purpose. I would be honored to have your support—cast your vote today and help me bring this recognition home. 🏆

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